What are the signs of really being happy in a relationship?
JW told me that I don't seem happy...for like the past 2 months. That i only complain about my job, and that i stopped doing things, and things always seem to be about me.
Ok...we've been dating for 6 months, and we live together. Our living room is in shambles, due to remodeling, and the house is a disaster. I am a waitress, i clean up after people all day...so yeah, i don't really want to do it when i get home. I admit, i haven't cleaned a whole lot or cooked for about 3 months now. BUT he hasn't cleaned, only once, in the entire time i've lived here.
So, i don't want to do the complaining about him to justify my actions. I dont want to take the blame, because it isn't all my fault...and I'm not going to blame him. I only wonder....what really deems a person happy in a relationship.
I was under the impression that it's the fact that we still laugh everyday. I love being with him and when he holds me in his arms. I love his kisses. I want to spend as much time as I possibly can with him. I love laying in bed and laughing at each other and talking about nothing. I love our thursday night poker...minus the mess! I love spending our days off together (when it actually happens.) I love his nephews...and his family for the most part. I love that he brings me coffee in the morning. I love our stupid fish. I even like the damn cat. I love that he picks on me for being so little. Oh..and the sex! haha
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well i think you're under the right impression... and i also think that with questions like that the easiest way to find the answer is to wait for it.
the right answer will come to you when it's time, for now enjoy the laughter and let the future take care of itself.
Umm.. Yeah, what she said.
that's what i always thought. There's enough worries, let alone worrying over something that could be exactly opposite of what we have planned.
'zactly
take care of today and tomorrow cares for itself
love me the platitudes ... they're all so true.
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